The Best Way to build rapport
Building rapport (that's fancy talk for getting along well with others) is actually pretty simple when you know the right steps! Here's how to do it:
- Show genuine interest in others:
- Ask questions about their hobbies
- Remember their name and use it
- Pay attention when they talk
- Match their energy:
- If they're excited, be excited too
- If they're speaking quietly, lower your voice
- Mirror their body language (but don't make it obvious!)
- Find common ground:
- Talk about shared interests
- Discuss common experiences
- Share relatable stories
- Be real:
- Don't try to fake who you are
- Share your honest opinions (politely)
- Admit when you don't know something
The key is to be genuine and show that you care about the other person. Think about how you feel when someone really listens to you - that's what you want to give others!